I like sex as much as the next person. I like talking about sex. What I don’t like is five or so messages into an initial conversation, the guy ONLY talking about sex. At this point, I don’t know if I want to have sex with him – can I get to know him first? And his vague profile doesn’t help me learn more about him.
But when I called Mr. Sex out, he get cranky at me because although he claims to be “open, honest, up front, blunt yet respectful of others feelings”, he obviously can only dish it out and not take it in.
I should have been more wary about even engaging with Mr. Sex based on his very first message to me. But I wasn’t because he was merely commenting on a question that I had chosen to answer on the dating site. I can’t fault him for that if I am going to put the information out there.
Everything started out swimmingly, Mr. Sex was respectful of my decision to not give out my phone number right away (a lot of guys aren’t), he asked what I did for a living, told me what he did for a living (and no he didn’t think it was an unreasonable question), told me the basic area where he lived, I reciprocated and then…
Some people may say that I jumped to unfair conclusions, but I really don’t think I did. If you talk about sex, it’s on your mind A LOT. And that is probably how you choose to initially connect with women. That may work for some women, but it doesn’t work for me. And does his “bigger picture” involve nudes – I am pretty sure that it would.
Thank you Mr. Sex for having to get the last word in. That doesn’t illustrate that you are a good guy, that illustrates that you are pompous and arrogant. And you probably think that you are God’s gift to women – guess what? You probably aren’t.
I am not a prude in any way, shape or form, but shouldn’t a person want to get to know someone before discussing their love of oral sex? I think so.
Ladies and gents, what are your opinions?